Dear Friends,
In recent weeks we have witnessed the tragedy and trauma of the people of Afghanistan. The complex history of that troubled country has dominated international politics for decades, much blood has been shed, and the cultural tension is as real as ever. As the recriminations begin, the pain, heartbreak and fear of many families and communities deepen.
My brother served his deployment in Afghanistan with the army some years ago. He was involved in the rebuilding of communities and schools, as a part of the reconstruction of the nation. Winning the trust of the local people was essential in order to gain trust and to make some progress. He described the situation as the western forces having the watches but the locals having the time.
There can be no doubt that much was achieved in the last two decades, but the question now is how much will survive the new regime.
One of the most influential books on effective cross cultural mission written in the last century is ‘Christianity Rediscovered’ by Vincent Donovan. As a Jesuit priest sent to live among African tribes, Donovan, did not take the gospel to them and give it to them, or persuade them that he was right and they were wrong. Neither did he ‘bribe’ them with the promises of medicine, education and prosperity, neither did he use military force or dominance.
Instead he lived among them, taking a long time to become acquainted with their ways and customs and language. He decided to preach without all the ties of western culture that Africans had come to resent. He decided not to change them, but to ‘preach’ in groups rather than to individuals to bring about a religious change. After all, isn't that what Jesus and Paul did? Preach to groups and crowds? He preached in parables too, asking the tribes to think, discuss and debate. But best of all, when done he left. Just as Paul did. He did not outstay his welcome. Thus allowing them to practice Christianity in their own way.
Let us pray for the peoples of Afghanistan, give generously, welcome warmly, and pledge not just to change others but be changed by them too through respectful listening.
Peace Tim